It is a sadden fact to miss out on sex education in school. Although every once in a while we keep on hearing arising issues whether sex education should be compulsory in school or not , the fact of the matter is it will never materialize. Not with our seemingly backward mindset which the majority of the current population have in mind.
On the other hand, if for once you could stop blamming the authority for not doing the right things, you are entirely entitled to make the change yourself. In relevant to learning sex education, you could get your very personal tutorial from books, words of mouth ( if you could trust any) and I guess the most reliable and easily accessed source will obviously be from the Internet itself.
So there I was, finding myself browsing through the net searching for vital informations. Hehe.
I was caught up researching for informations on tampons.
Okay, first up! If you have no graphical idea on how a tampon looks like or worst you don't even have a freaking idea what is a tampon, please press Alt + F4 NOW.
Enough of the disclaimer thingy going about, let us get to the core of things.
Most people have a bad misconception and understanding of the usage and application of a tampon. Tampons are highly associated with the fear of losing one's virginity. If you really want to know, you will only lose your virginity once you have a sexual intercourse. You might also want to argue that by applying the tampon you will also lose your virginity because you will tear the hymen which is always misunderstood as the measuring indicator for one's virginity. What I am saying is that, people tend to think that if you tear your hymen, there goes your virginity.
Roughly speaking, the hymen is layers of tissue located around the opening of the vagina. Women may or may not have hymen tissue because the formation of the hymen depends on the division of the tissue. If the tissue divides incompletely , you will end up with the hymen and if the tissues divides completely there will be no hymen at all during birth. The hymen formation actually happens during the early stages of the fetal developement or in short, when females are in the womb.
Moreover, from my understanding, the hymen is very elastic. Women may end up tearing or otherwise stretching the hymen if you are highly active in certain sports activities and during intercourse. But some people may still have the hymen intact despite having sex for years and most probably will partially tear the hymen only through rough sex. It is also knowned that this very elastic and strong tissue which God has created for women will be present until the next vaginally delivered baby.
Pheww! That takes a lot of explanation isn't it.
So ladies, if you are ever caught in an arguement with a guy or another girl on tampon and virginity related matter, you will definately have your win and say on the right things if you have understood some basics about the women's body from the ramblings I have been doing a few paragraphs ago. Therefore, there should not be any fear if you wish to use the tampon and do not worry about the common first night blood stain on the bedsheet kind of craps because for all you have to know, nobody could tell whether or not you have a hymen or even a hymen tear. And if you do have a tear of the hymen, there is usually no pain nor bleeding at all, so there is no way telling on the current situation of your hymen unless if you pay a little visit to the doctor and beg to ask him/her to check on your freaking hymen. Talking about having a major paranoia on petty stuffs.
Finally, please do away with all those complicating and mostly untrue myth, people! Hopefully, you have understood a miniscule fact about your body and sex by now.
Friday, May 19, 2006
Understanding your Sex!
It is a sadden fact to miss out on sex education in school. Although every once in a while we keep on hearing arising issues whether sex education should be compulsory in school or not , the fact of the matter is it will never materialize. Not with our seemingly backward mindset which the majority of the current population have in mind.
On the other hand, if for once you could stop blamming the authority for not doing the right things, you are entirely entitled to make the change yourself. In relevant to learning sex education, you could get your very personal tutorial from books, words of mouth ( if you could trust any) and I guess the most reliable and easily accessed source will obviously be from the Internet itself.
So there I was, finding myself browsing through the net searching for vital informations. Hehe.
I was caught up researching for informations on tampons.
Okay, first up! If you have no graphical idea on how a tampon looks like or worst you don't even have a freaking idea what is a tampon, please press Alt + F4 NOW.
Enough of the disclaimer thingy going about, let us get to the core of things.
Most people have a bad misconception and understanding of the usage and application of a tampon. Tampons are highly associated with the fear of losing one's virginity. If you really want to know, you will only lose your virginity once you have a sexual intercourse. You might also want to argue that by applying the tampon you will also lose your virginity because you will tear the hymen which is always misunderstood as the measuring indicator for one's virginity. What I am saying is that, people tend to think that if you tear your hymen, there goes your virginity.
Roughly speaking, the hymen is layers of tissue located around the opening of the vagina. Women may or may not have hymen tissue because the formation of the hymen depends on the division of the tissue. If the tissue divides incompletely , you will end up with the hymen and if the tissues divides completely there will be no hymen at all during birth. The hymen formation actually happens during the early stages of the fetal developement or in short, when females are in the womb.
Moreover, from my understanding, the hymen is very elastic. Women may end up tearing or otherwise stretching the hymen if you are highly active in certain sports activities and during intercourse. But some people may still have the hymen intact despite having sex for years and most probably will partially tear the hymen only through rough sex. It is also knowned that this very elastic and strong tissue which God has created for women will be present until the next vaginally delivered baby.
Pheww! That takes a lot of explanation isn't it.
So ladies, if you are ever caught in an arguement with a guy or another girl on tampon and virginity related matter, you will definately have your win and say on the right things if you have understood some basics about the women's body from the ramblings I have been doing a few paragraphs ago. Therefore, there should not be any fear if you wish to use the tampon and do not worry about the common first night blood stain on the bedsheet kind of craps because for all you have to know, nobody could tell whether or not you have a hymen or even a hymen tear. And if you do have a tear of the hymen, there is usually no pain nor bleeding at all, so there is no way telling on the current situation of your hymen unless if you pay a little visit to the doctor and beg to ask him/her to check on your freaking hymen. Talking about having a major paranoia on petty stuffs.
Finally, please do away with all those complicating and mostly untrue myth, people! Hopefully, you have understood a miniscule fact about your body and sex by now.
On the other hand, if for once you could stop blamming the authority for not doing the right things, you are entirely entitled to make the change yourself. In relevant to learning sex education, you could get your very personal tutorial from books, words of mouth ( if you could trust any) and I guess the most reliable and easily accessed source will obviously be from the Internet itself.
So there I was, finding myself browsing through the net searching for vital informations. Hehe.
I was caught up researching for informations on tampons.
Okay, first up! If you have no graphical idea on how a tampon looks like or worst you don't even have a freaking idea what is a tampon, please press Alt + F4 NOW.
Enough of the disclaimer thingy going about, let us get to the core of things.
Most people have a bad misconception and understanding of the usage and application of a tampon. Tampons are highly associated with the fear of losing one's virginity. If you really want to know, you will only lose your virginity once you have a sexual intercourse. You might also want to argue that by applying the tampon you will also lose your virginity because you will tear the hymen which is always misunderstood as the measuring indicator for one's virginity. What I am saying is that, people tend to think that if you tear your hymen, there goes your virginity.
Roughly speaking, the hymen is layers of tissue located around the opening of the vagina. Women may or may not have hymen tissue because the formation of the hymen depends on the division of the tissue. If the tissue divides incompletely , you will end up with the hymen and if the tissues divides completely there will be no hymen at all during birth. The hymen formation actually happens during the early stages of the fetal developement or in short, when females are in the womb.
Moreover, from my understanding, the hymen is very elastic. Women may end up tearing or otherwise stretching the hymen if you are highly active in certain sports activities and during intercourse. But some people may still have the hymen intact despite having sex for years and most probably will partially tear the hymen only through rough sex. It is also knowned that this very elastic and strong tissue which God has created for women will be present until the next vaginally delivered baby.
Pheww! That takes a lot of explanation isn't it.
So ladies, if you are ever caught in an arguement with a guy or another girl on tampon and virginity related matter, you will definately have your win and say on the right things if you have understood some basics about the women's body from the ramblings I have been doing a few paragraphs ago. Therefore, there should not be any fear if you wish to use the tampon and do not worry about the common first night blood stain on the bedsheet kind of craps because for all you have to know, nobody could tell whether or not you have a hymen or even a hymen tear. And if you do have a tear of the hymen, there is usually no pain nor bleeding at all, so there is no way telling on the current situation of your hymen unless if you pay a little visit to the doctor and beg to ask him/her to check on your freaking hymen. Talking about having a major paranoia on petty stuffs.
Finally, please do away with all those complicating and mostly untrue myth, people! Hopefully, you have understood a miniscule fact about your body and sex by now.
Thursday, May 18, 2006
Do you consider yourself typical?
lf the answer for the above is yes, wo ... you definately need a lot to change and I don't suppose you will be reading this blog either. Hahaha.
Typical people under my personal and very surface interpretation means a whole lot of thing.
Types and behaviours of the typical people:
- racists, disrespect others, talk highly of themselves only, cooped up in their own community, not open minded, supposedly to be extremely pious about the religion but in reality knows little or nothing at all about the religion, very judgemental or in a nutshell they are just very TYPICAL!
So what is your definition of a 'Typical Person'?
Typical people under my personal and very surface interpretation means a whole lot of thing.
Types and behaviours of the typical people:
- racists, disrespect others, talk highly of themselves only, cooped up in their own community, not open minded, supposedly to be extremely pious about the religion but in reality knows little or nothing at all about the religion, very judgemental or in a nutshell they are just very TYPICAL!
So what is your definition of a 'Typical Person'?
Do you consider yourself typical?
lf the answer for the above is yes, wo ... you definately need a lot to change and I don't suppose you will be reading this blog either. Hahaha.
Typical people under my personal and very surface interpretation means a whole lot of thing.
Types and behaviours of the typical people:
- racists, disrespect others, talk highly of themselves only, cooped up in their own community, not open minded, supposedly to be extremely pious about the religion but in reality knows little or nothing at all about the religion, very judgemental or in a nutshell they are just very TYPICAL!
So what is your definition of a 'Typical Person'?
Typical people under my personal and very surface interpretation means a whole lot of thing.
Types and behaviours of the typical people:
- racists, disrespect others, talk highly of themselves only, cooped up in their own community, not open minded, supposedly to be extremely pious about the religion but in reality knows little or nothing at all about the religion, very judgemental or in a nutshell they are just very TYPICAL!
So what is your definition of a 'Typical Person'?
Thursday, May 11, 2006
Young and Crazy!
When you are at my age and you have neither the commitment nor the obligations for anything, you ought to do the craziest and the wildest thing in your life. This will especially help if you are sticking to the I'm Single Option.
I fully recommend people who are of the contemporaries to do these:
1. Grab that "Flirting is not a crime " T-shirt from BUM and wear it with pride.
2. Flirt around -->The ultimate favourite single people past time.
3. Hanging out with eligible,single, not-so-bad looking guys/girls not gays/lesbians with a couple of your trusted and craziest friends for safety reasons.
4. Pose around and take snapshots from angles ranging from 1 - 360 degrees and most important of all upload and post it online for public viewing. You never know who might be coming after you.
5. Meet as many friends of your friends friend friend or whatever and remember to socialise.
6. Always being yourself, be confident and make yourself look HOT/ stunningly beautiful in order for others to perceive the same way too. Well, hopefully!
7. If you are daring and confident enough, Blind Date is to sought after, provided the ground rules of blind dates are to be followed for the sake of your own safety.
8. Stick this idea in your head : "Being single gives you the endless freedom to meet people, understanding people and yourself better."
9. Once in a while, you need to go for the wildest escapade ride in your single life. Trust me you will laugh yourself out to bits no matter how disastrous it would end up at the end of the day.
10. Remember not to waste your single life and always make the most out of it. There's no regret and just have fun!
I fully recommend people who are of the contemporaries to do these:
1. Grab that "Flirting is not a crime " T-shirt from BUM and wear it with pride.
2. Flirt around -->The ultimate favourite single people past time.
3. Hanging out with eligible,single, not-so-bad looking guys/girls not gays/lesbians with a couple of your trusted and craziest friends for safety reasons.
4. Pose around and take snapshots from angles ranging from 1 - 360 degrees and most important of all upload and post it online for public viewing. You never know who might be coming after you.
5. Meet as many friends of your friends friend friend or whatever and remember to socialise.
6. Always being yourself, be confident and make yourself look HOT/ stunningly beautiful in order for others to perceive the same way too. Well, hopefully!
7. If you are daring and confident enough, Blind Date is to sought after, provided the ground rules of blind dates are to be followed for the sake of your own safety.
8. Stick this idea in your head : "Being single gives you the endless freedom to meet people, understanding people and yourself better."
9. Once in a while, you need to go for the wildest escapade ride in your single life. Trust me you will laugh yourself out to bits no matter how disastrous it would end up at the end of the day.
10. Remember not to waste your single life and always make the most out of it. There's no regret and just have fun!
Young and Crazy!
When you are at my age and you have neither the commitment nor the obligations for anything, you ought to do the craziest and the wildest thing in your life. This will especially help if you are sticking to the I'm Single Option.
I fully recommend people who are of the contemporaries to do these:
1. Grab that "Flirting is not a crime " T-shirt from BUM and wear it with pride.
2. Flirt around -->The ultimate favourite single people past time.
3. Hanging out with eligible,single, not-so-bad looking guys/girls not gays/lesbians with a couple of your trusted and craziest friends for safety reasons.
4. Pose around and take snapshots from angles ranging from 1 - 360 degrees and most important of all upload and post it online for public viewing. You never know who might be coming after you.
5. Meet as many friends of your friends friend friend or whatever and remember to socialise.
6. Always being yourself, be confident and make yourself look HOT/ stunningly beautiful in order for others to perceive the same way too. Well, hopefully!
7. If you are daring and confident enough, Blind Date is to sought after, provided the ground rules of blind dates are to be followed for the sake of your own safety.
8. Stick this idea in your head : "Being single gives you the endless freedom to meet people, understanding people and yourself better."
9. Once in a while, you need to go for the wildest escapade ride in your single life. Trust me you will laugh yourself out to bits no matter how disastrous it would end up at the end of the day.
10. Remember not to waste your single life and always make the most out of it. There's no regret and just have fun!
I fully recommend people who are of the contemporaries to do these:
1. Grab that "Flirting is not a crime " T-shirt from BUM and wear it with pride.
2. Flirt around -->The ultimate favourite single people past time.
3. Hanging out with eligible,single, not-so-bad looking guys/girls not gays/lesbians with a couple of your trusted and craziest friends for safety reasons.
4. Pose around and take snapshots from angles ranging from 1 - 360 degrees and most important of all upload and post it online for public viewing. You never know who might be coming after you.
5. Meet as many friends of your friends friend friend or whatever and remember to socialise.
6. Always being yourself, be confident and make yourself look HOT/ stunningly beautiful in order for others to perceive the same way too. Well, hopefully!
7. If you are daring and confident enough, Blind Date is to sought after, provided the ground rules of blind dates are to be followed for the sake of your own safety.
8. Stick this idea in your head : "Being single gives you the endless freedom to meet people, understanding people and yourself better."
9. Once in a while, you need to go for the wildest escapade ride in your single life. Trust me you will laugh yourself out to bits no matter how disastrous it would end up at the end of the day.
10. Remember not to waste your single life and always make the most out of it. There's no regret and just have fun!
Saturday, May 06, 2006
Caffeine Power!
I had coffee earlier tonight and I am so wide awake up until now.
I have not been ranting for quiet sometime already rite. So my fellow readers, do you guys miss me???? Hahahha...
I just got back from Sitiawan yesterday morning. I drove alone all the way from Sitiawan-KL. It was a good attempt and I did pretty well. I was running on average of 120-130km/h. Usually I would have gone on average of 140km/h if I am under supervision but I did not dare to do so this time around only because I was driving alone. I had to be super cautious. Yeah right! It was a good ride altogether with Gweny-Gwen-Gwen accompanying me throughout the three hours trip.
What else happened for the past week?
Yeah, I was stuck in the hospital for a couple of days. Mind you, I was not the one hospitalized. That was the second time I actually make trips to the hospital. I can easily conclude that I don't really like hospitals that much. Who would have? It's a place for the SICK! There is nothing exhilarating about it! ;)
Apart from meeting a super old friend of mine and officially back to square one (for those who know, you know what I am talking about. no need to elaborate), I think that I had my week well spent. I am looking forward for tomorrow noon and I'll catch up with you lots later.
I have not been ranting for quiet sometime already rite. So my fellow readers, do you guys miss me???? Hahahha...
I just got back from Sitiawan yesterday morning. I drove alone all the way from Sitiawan-KL. It was a good attempt and I did pretty well. I was running on average of 120-130km/h. Usually I would have gone on average of 140km/h if I am under supervision but I did not dare to do so this time around only because I was driving alone. I had to be super cautious. Yeah right! It was a good ride altogether with Gweny-Gwen-Gwen accompanying me throughout the three hours trip.
What else happened for the past week?
Yeah, I was stuck in the hospital for a couple of days. Mind you, I was not the one hospitalized. That was the second time I actually make trips to the hospital. I can easily conclude that I don't really like hospitals that much. Who would have? It's a place for the SICK! There is nothing exhilarating about it! ;)
Apart from meeting a super old friend of mine and officially back to square one (for those who know, you know what I am talking about. no need to elaborate), I think that I had my week well spent. I am looking forward for tomorrow noon and I'll catch up with you lots later.
Caffeine Power!
I had coffee earlier tonight and I am so wide awake up until now.
I have not been ranting for quiet sometime already rite. So my fellow readers, do you guys miss me???? Hahahha...
I just got back from Sitiawan yesterday morning. I drove alone all the way from Sitiawan-KL. It was a good attempt and I did pretty well. I was running on average of 120-130km/h. Usually I would have gone on average of 140km/h if I am under supervision but I did not dare to do so this time around only because I was driving alone. I had to be super cautious. Yeah right! It was a good ride altogether with Gweny-Gwen-Gwen accompanying me throughout the three hours trip.
What else happened for the past week?
Yeah, I was stuck in the hospital for a couple of days. Mind you, I was not the one hospitalized. That was the second time I actually make trips to the hospital. I can easily conclude that I don't really like hospitals that much. Who would have? It's a place for the SICK! There is nothing exhilarating about it! ;)
Apart from meeting a super old friend of mine and officially back to square one (for those who know, you know what I am talking about. no need to elaborate), I think that I had my week well spent. I am looking forward for tomorrow noon and I'll catch up with you lots later.
I have not been ranting for quiet sometime already rite. So my fellow readers, do you guys miss me???? Hahahha...
I just got back from Sitiawan yesterday morning. I drove alone all the way from Sitiawan-KL. It was a good attempt and I did pretty well. I was running on average of 120-130km/h. Usually I would have gone on average of 140km/h if I am under supervision but I did not dare to do so this time around only because I was driving alone. I had to be super cautious. Yeah right! It was a good ride altogether with Gweny-Gwen-Gwen accompanying me throughout the three hours trip.
What else happened for the past week?
Yeah, I was stuck in the hospital for a couple of days. Mind you, I was not the one hospitalized. That was the second time I actually make trips to the hospital. I can easily conclude that I don't really like hospitals that much. Who would have? It's a place for the SICK! There is nothing exhilarating about it! ;)
Apart from meeting a super old friend of mine and officially back to square one (for those who know, you know what I am talking about. no need to elaborate), I think that I had my week well spent. I am looking forward for tomorrow noon and I'll catch up with you lots later.
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